Janet Roberts is an abstract painter and mother of four. At the age of 50, she has more experience dealing with cancer than anyone I've ever met. First, she was diagnosed with uterine cancer. Then, ovarian cancer three years later. Then, at the age of 42, colon cancer. And finally, skin cancer that turned out to be melanoma.
She's infinitely more upbeat than I am about life's tendency to whisper, "Guess what! New plan!" So I decided, with Janet's permission, to share her perspective with you.
My friends ask: Why you? Why now? Why this? Why?
In response, I must then ask myself: Why these beautiful, good daughters? Why this splendid husband who adores me? Why these great friends? Why the horses in my backyard and the rides in open pastures I take with them? Why this fantastic life, painting abstracts in my studio, expressing myself in this way?
I haven't seen my mother's face or heard her words in more than 35 years. Yet, every morning when I awaken, I imagine her embracing me and giving me the strength and willingness to commit to another day of mystery and suspense.
I am grateful for every single day, every single new procedure I must perform, every moment breathing and alive, and sharing with friends and strangers. I live my life with an open heart, a curious nature, and a smile on my face.
I wear my badge of cancer with great pride, as my challenges with it have helped to forge a life worth living; a life fulfilled; a life full of promise, creativity, balance, and truth. I know my life's purpose, I live with intention, and I am courageous and unafraid.
To learn more about Janet's experience with cancer, please read Story of a Four-Time Cancer Survivor. For more information about coping with colon cancer, you may want to explore these resources:
